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Being Vocal During Sex


Being vocal during sex is a super turn on. Lying there not saying a word gives your lover no indication of how your feeling or what you like or don’t like.  Since you cant read each other minds be vocal.  A little dirty talk goes a long way and in the process you not only can get your partner hot but get what you want and how you want it.  Talking to your lover about how hard or soft you want it, slow or fast, what positions feel good.  Letting each other know what doesn’t feel good is also very important.  Women sometimes end up not enjoy sex because sometimes it just doesn’t feel good.  Being vocal about what doesn’t will make your partner happy to change so that he know his hard work is getting appreciated.  Nobody wants to have a bad experience when having an affair that  is why your here because you are either not getting any sex or unhappy with the sex you are getting.  You alone have the ability to change that. Speak Up!

Dinning Out! Tips For Eating Pussy!


So you want to know how to eat out correctly?  Well here are some tips to make your women lover “cream for more” and make you a master of eating pussy! Every women wants it so show her you have to skills to get the job done.

   1. Making sure she is comfortable is very important if she is feeling self conscience  about the act she is  never going to climax.  So first and fore most make her comfortable.  Try some heavy kissing and petting before heading down town.

    2.Make sure she is in the right position not only will this help her be more comfortable it will help you be more physically comfortable too.  Putting a pillow under her butt and spreading her knees wide apart will give you better leverage to do your tongue tingling magic.

3. Start slow and tease so she can build a little anticipation and sensation before driving in.  Licking her inner thighs and slowly licking up and down on the out side of the labia and increasing speed is a great way to start.

4. Using your tongue start to work in a circular motion on the clit and work a finger into her vagina this will heighten her pleasure will working both at the time pace.

5. Bringing a small vibrator or bullet  into the mix will help too,  considering it takes the average women approximately 20 minutes to orgasm from oral sex.  So a helping hand will lessen your time of work and help her get there faster.  Place the vibrator on her clit while you work your tongue in and out of her vagina.

6. Finally, read your partners body you are going to be able to tell if she is enjoying it.  Don’t just assume that since your face is buried in her mound your doing what it takes.


Long Distance Relationship


Are you in a long distance relationship where your partner is out of state?  Does your spouse work out of town and is never home due to their job?  No sexual gratification in your life?  Are you lonely and just wanting a companion but don’t want to leave your relationship or marriage?

You just need someone to keep you happy while your spouse is gone.  Finding an online affair partner is easy, safe and confidential.  You don’t have to be lonely or wishing to get laid.  All to have to do is hook up online with someone just like you looking for a no strings attached fling!  A lover to fill in the empty spots in your life.  You might not be unhappy in your marriage just tried of being alone.  Married dating is a great way to get what you want without messing up what you have.  So if you can’t be with the one you want, love the one your with!

Ride Em Cowgirl!


Here is a an awesome sex position to make both lovers “come together” if you know what I mean.

Start with your guy sitting on the bench with his knees bent and legs slightly spread, leaning back with his arms outstretched and resting on the edge of the sofa or top of a bench. Straddle him, facing forward, and lower your open needy self onto his hard erection, holding on to his shoulders for support. Keep your knees bent and feet flat on the bench or couch as you move up and down or back and forth on his hot love shaft!

Why are you going to love this? The space between your torsos allows both of you to watch the action. There’s also room for pelvic play, so you can maximize clitoral stimulation by rubbing your clit against his pubic bone so you get both vaginal and clitoris for an amazing climax! Yee Haw!!

Good Vibrations


A stimulating way to spice up the bedroom activities with your lover is to bring some fun toys into the mix! There are numerous different toys to add to spice to your everyday affair! There is all kinds of different shape and sizes! There are vibrators that work not only on the woman but on the man too! You can enjoy them separately or together at the same time.   Don’t feel intimidated by them or shy!  Lye back and enjoy some good vibrations.

Tried of Watching Porn???


So you are unhappy with your current sex life with your spouse or significant other?  You want something else something more exciting?  You want something with someone new? You don’t want to leave your wife or husband or break up your family life?  You just want something more fulfilling in the bedroom? Tried of watching the same old porn scenes on those wore out DVD’s or the free clips from the porn sites on the web. fantasying about someone sucking your cock or eating your pussy? Hoping to get yourself off before your husband or wife walks in or the kids get home from school?

Well you don’t have to fantasize anymore you can meet someone today with Discreet Adultery and make your fantasies come true.  You can have your sexual needs met by other people if your same situation looking for the same things.  Try it today and you won’t have to be skimming for free porn anymore.

Cleanliness is next to…


Maybe this may be a no brainer.  When meeting for the first time or the third time for your discreet encounter being clean is important!  Especially from a woman’s  point of view. Being  clean and smelling great is a huge turn on.  Nobody wants a lover who stinks literally or in bed. Taking care of your body and your body odor shows you have confidence and self esteem and know how and what to get what your want.  A little cologne or perfume goes a long way. Don’t over do it!  You don’t want your partner to smell like another women or man when they return home.  Also some people are really sensitive when it comes to smells it can be either a big turn on or turn off.  This goes not only for your body but dental hygiene as well,  having bad breath is a turn off!  I don’t care who you are nobody wants to kiss someone whose mouth smells like an ash tray or trash can.  Take a little extra time with yourself not only will your lover be impressed but you might just impress yourself.

Condom Sense


When having any kind of sexual interaction with your lover using a condom is not only for birth control but mainly for protection against STD’s. Don’t be an idiot always use a condom, always make your male lover use a condom.  As much as you think you know a person you don’t and you don’t know how many other sexual partners they may have or what kind of STD’s they might be bringing to the table.  Plus you don’t want to carry anything home to your spouse including a baby. So here are a couple top condoms to try that are on the market.  This way you can make your affair a stress free fling.

  • Trojan-Ultra Ribbed Ecstasy: Feels like nothings there smooth lube last a long time and the ribs make it more pleasurable.
  • Lifestyles X2: Greater sensitivity so you feel more. Lubricated inside and out. Extra stimulation with a cool tingly feeling.
  • Trojan Her Pleasure Ecstasy: Ribbed at the tip and smooth at the base for her pleasure!
  • Durex Extra Sensitive: Super thin the closets to skin to skin sensation.  Helps the man keep an erection.

Mix it up and find what works best for you!

Fantasying Taking Your Affair To The Next Level


When you think of fantasy what come into you head unicorns and princesses is not the answer I was looking for.  How about something hot, lustful, passionate and dark all at the same time?  You might also be in to something more light, soft and romantic.  Roll playing can be an awesome way to heat up any affair.  You already have the excitement of the affair so why not take it to the next level?

With your new discreet encounters you can be whoever you like and so can they.  Roll playing can be exciting and fun.  There are a endless amount scenarios.  You could each pick something and have it as a surprise for the other.  Or a grab bag of different ones you choose from and play them out on each new encounter.  You can get super freaky ( leather whips and handcuffs) or keep it tame ( pool boy/gardener comes by the trim the bushes and you offer him more than a glass of lemonade).  No matter what you both agree a pone really getting into character can help you let go of any inhabitations you may have and make it an experience you wont forget.


Kissing The Super Four Play


Kissing you think may be over rated?  Think again, kissing is a huge determiner for men and women if they want to go any further.  Kissing sometimes can also be a sign of what is to come in the bedroom as well.  Fast and sloppy might not be for everyone.  Long and hard kissing might be a sign of long, hard, lustful sex.

Studies show that women after 15 minutes of kissing are at the same arousal level of 30 of oral sex performed on them.  Kissing can be super seductive and can make the anticipation of what to come even greater.  We aren’t just talking about kissing on the mouth,  kissing the neck, ears, inner thighs, nipples. etc… on both parties can get the blood pumping to all the right parts and really set the stage for some great love making.

So next time instead of going right for the gusto try a good 20 minutes of Kissing the Super Four Play.  Not only can you prolong the pleasure but make the ride to the top even smoother.



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