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Should You Or Shouldn’t You


Should you or shouldn’t you?  That might be the questions to are asking yourself over and over.  Should you lay there in bed alone and unsatisfied?  Should you stay up late watching TV because you know there isn’t anything going on in the bedroom?  Should you watch some porn on the web just to get off?  No you shouldn’t!  You should get online to meet someone to have a fling with! Something simple, something quick, something easy!  This is what you should do! Check out all the awesome links to the right and stop being alone, unhappy and unsatisfied! So if the question is should you or shouldn’t you!   You shouldn’t be sexually unhappy and unfulfilled and you should have a discreet encounter and start married dating today !




Wanting to talk dirty to get things hot and horny before you meet or to see if that discreet encounter is going to be all what they said they are.  Try some sex texting.  If you can’t write a couple of nasty text how are you going to be able to perform the dirty deeds.  Texting adds some real excitement to your affair while keeping it spicy.  Sexting is a fun and pretty harmless way to get an affair started.  Just be safe and make sure what you write on your phone you delete after every message you definitely don’t want your spouse to snoop around on your phone and find something they shouldn’t.  Enjoy yourself but don’t get caught!

Meeting For A Date Online


So you want to meet your lover but either you or them can’t make it happen.  Either they live to far away or both of your schedules in your private lives aren’t coinciding.  Plan a date online, set up a chat with each other. Of course this is much better with a webcam, then just your normal chat session.  A video chat let you see and talk to each other while being somewhere completely different.  This way you can be with each other even if your not together.  Start with maybe a drink and a glass of wine to get the mood started and feel free to start the naughty talk,  you can show each other all kinds of goodies through the camera.  Maybe play a game to see who has to take what off first.  Pleasure yourself in front of each other.  Take turns or do it together.  Girls get out your vibrators and show him what you want him to do to you.  Guys show her how you liked it stroked!  This can be a truly educational date as well as thrilling.  After this encounter just think how good its going to be when you finally get to be with each other in the flesh.  So if you cant directly be together you can still cum together.

Give Your Lover A Gift He Will Love


Forget the flowers and the chocolates for your lover for Valentines Day. Stop worrying about what would make the best gift.  Give him an amazing blow job.  That’s what he really wants.   Lick it, suck it, stroke it, until he erupts in your mouth! Pleasure him to completion, and he will return the favor. So forget all the clique Valentine Day gifts and give him the he will certainly enjoy and appreciate.

Married Date Ideas


So your looking for some fun married date ideas.  Something to ignite each others desires.  Here are a couple ideas to keep hot and discreet!

Order In- Plan a night of oriental delights. Place lots of pillows on the floor, with take out sushi and a fun message oil everyone will have a happy ending.

Spa Night- bubble bath, foot massages, strawberries and champagne. A relaxing and stimulating evening all in one!

Body Paints and Black Light- So you really want to get funky?  Try some body paints and a black light and get your avatar on.  Just make sure they are washable!

Arabian Nights- hookah, spicy foods and sweet sugary treats. Try an edible massage or lotion and pull out the Kama Sutra sex positions book of love and find your perfect pleasure position.

These are just some fun ideas to keep it exciting and fun. That’s why you are here to add excitement and fun back in your sex life. So go outta the box and you might find your lover will enjoy it too.

Social Media and Affairs


These days social media is all the rage, everyone is Face booking and Tweeting about their lives and everything and everyone in it.  Along with married dating!  So your thinking why not find your lover on one of these networking site and check out their profile or message them.  This is strongly discouraged!  Making contact with your married dating partner through social media is a big mistake!  These accounts are hacked regularly and your spouse is probably going to be watching your account very closely especially if any suspicions have ever arose.  Its best not to ever write or have any contact with your lover through these accounts.  Its amazing how many people can see what your posting and something you think is private is soon to be not so private.

Play it safe and keep social media out of your affair and away from prying eyes!

Caffeine And Sex


Are you a big coffee drinker?  Do you feel like your sex drive is lacking?  Well maybe that lacking libido has to do with the fact you are drinking to many cups of Joe in the morning or through out the day.  This can be a real problem for sex drive.  Caffeine as you know is a stimulant and in most cases is safe but when the stimulant wares off so does you drive not only mentally but physically thus leading to lack of desire for sex.  Cutting back to one cup a day or even less can help build back sex drive.  That doesn’t mean having a sugary soda or energy drink instead.  Water is your best choice.  So if you want a better sex and better libido say no to that second cup of Joe.

Herbal Viagra?


Herbal Viagra is this a possibility for me you might be asking yourself especially if you are looking to carry on a new love affair?  There are many to choose from out there and its hard to tell which ones are safe and which ones aren”t. According to the Mayo Clinic many do contain substance tthat improve blood flow by relaxing the walls of blood vessels. However, none of them focuses specifically on blood vessels in the penis, as do Viagra and similar prescription drugs. As a result, these so-called herbal viagra supplements can cause dangerously low blood pressure in some men — particularly men who take nitrate medications for heart problems. It is a risk not worth taking.  If you are experiencing these problems then seek out your healthcare professional and discuss your concerns as well as other medications you might be taking as well.  You can accomplish this discreetly with your doctor or healthcare professional without jeopardizing your health or your affair.

Reach Out Of Your Circles


When participating in online married dating make sure you are reaching and participating far out of any social or business circles that could connect you to your private life.  This a safe guard to ensure you do not get caught.  You don’t want to try to have a lover who participates in the same routines as you and your spouse i.e. Saturdays at the same gym, going to the same restaurants and in some cases its best not to even go out in the same town as your fling may live or you.  Its best to reach far beyond that unless you plan on never being seen in public which is also an option for many  affair couples.  Sometimes having a lover who is at all connected to your private or social life in anyway can possibly cause a problem for either party.  That why it is always best to try to keep your private life completely separate than your affair life.  In the end it will help avoid any mishaps that might arise.  So make sure to reach far beyond your normal routines and find something new for both you and your fling.

Don’t Let Your Weight Decide Your Fate.


Many of us men and women in married relationship end up gaining weight.  Lets just say the old gray mare ain’t  what she use to be. But that old gray mare still wants to enjoy some action in the bedroom.  Sometime unfortunately our spouse don’t always understand the weight gain.  Either it be from children, age, stress at our jobs or just not the time we use to have for ourselves leads to lack of exercise and over eating.

Unfortunately this also leads to a lack in our sex drive and a lack of sexual desire and attraction in some cases from our significant others as well.  Maybe that doesn’t mean your marriage is doomed it just means that the sex isn’t there anymore.  That doesn’t mean that it cant be retrieved again!  Looking here at married dating and discreet encounters gives you the advantage of finding someone who is interested in you for you now not what you use to look like 20 years ago.  People come in all shapes and sizes and they are also desired in all shapes and sizes as well.  So don’t let your weight decide your sexual fate, find a fling today and fill your needs that your current relationship is not.

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