You might be wondering what to say to attract an affair partner. The best thing you can do is to be yourself because ultimately that is exactly who they are going to meet. So if you are wondering how to attract the opposite sex don’t there is someone out there looking for someone just like you and what you have to offer.  The best attraction is confidence and knowing what you want.  Not being wishy washy on your idea of an affair and married dating will help set the stage for what kind of lover you will meet.  Don’t be coy with what you are searching for only you are able to fulfill your desires.  So let your fantasies be known.  Let your rules be known.  Let yourself be known and you in turn attract exactly what you want.