When searching for a match or looking to find a lover.  Do you be you or do you be someone else?  Depending on what kind of contact you are going to be having with your dates, its fun to think about making a new persona up all together.  You are living out your sexual fantasies so why not take it to the next level and be who you have always dreamed of being? You dream of leather and lace of being a whip snapping dominatrix or a sex goddess who knows every position and foreplay known to man.  Here you can be that and no will ever have to know.  Play the innocent play, the naughty,or just be yourself.  The possibilities are endless.