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Don’t let One Bad Date Ruin It For You

Ok you met someone online you, you chatted and then you decided to go out on the date.  But something wasn’t right, either you just didn’t click with each other, they were not who they said they were, the fore play was bad, the sex was bad.  The list could go on and on.  Well don’t let that one bad date ruin having a FLING with someone.  Not everyone you meet is going to be perfect, thus is life.  But don’t stop looking because you had that bad experience.  That’s what so great about online dating there is thousands of people out there.  Using one of these great sites to the right guarantees you will find someone that fits you perfectly in more ways than one.  Also with no strings attached you can feel free to meet many different people.  So don’t let one bad apple ruin the bushel.

The Acceptance of Affairs


In many countries  for centuries through out the world having  EXTRA MATARTIAL AFFAIRS was a norm and tradition.  In the east Geisha were brought up to entertain business and wealthy men alike.  In the middle east  and India it is known that some royals had whole harems of women and wives. In many different countries it was the norm for a man to have many wives or mistresses.  The mistress is a well known part of history and human nature.  The mistress kept the man sexually happy while the wife kept his home happy.  In present time with the women and men both working out of the home its hard to keep the each other sexually happy and everyone and home happy too.  There just isn’t enough time and in a lot of ways both parties men and women alike feel spent, stressed and unfulfilled.  In this day an age we can look outside our regular routine and find some release and escape from that through marred dating and Discreet Encounters.  Many people aren’t looking to leave their marriage or their home they just need an escape and if that what keeps the whole thing running so be it.  You can look online and meet someone in the same situation, no strings attached, no drama.  Just an escape.  Return to your regular life and routine feel revived and relaxed ready to take on whatever life has to throw at you.

At Home


I was at home alone again,  My husband was gone on business for his job he is usually gone for about 20 days at a time out of state.  I really get lonely it being just me.  I mean I love my husband and our marriage but not having any sex or very little when he finally does make it home was starting to be a real drag.  I was starting to lose self esteem and I wasn’t feeling sexual or sexy at all.  I was basically why bother it doesn’t matter there is no one around to see me so why bother doing anything there was no one to show or get dressed up for.  This started to turn into some depression.  I figured I needed to do something to start fulfilling what I was missing in my life.  Sure I had friends and a job but I needed something else and with my husband being gone it just wasn’t happening.  So I started looking online since I didn’t want to be asking around about meeting someone.  I wanted to meet someone discreetly as possible.  I also was not looking for a relationship or a regular dating site.  I wanted something discreet and hopefully someone that was in the same boat as me .  Happy marriage but just needed a little more in the bedroom and someone to fill that lonely  need. I found the DISCREET ENCOUNTERS that lead me to all the great sites for MARRIED DATING.  Super easy, super fun and super safe.  I looked around and chatted with a couple different men.  I finally decided to meet with one and we had a great dinner at a discreet location, cocktails and then we decided to keep it out of our normal routine and went to a hotel.   At first I was nervous I wasn’t use to being with another man.  But my date really put me at easy and we agreed we would both only do what each other felt comfortable with.  So we soon started kissing and I never had a man take such control and know exactly what I wanted.  I came so many times I didn’t know was possible. He made me feel like a sex goddess and I was wanted, needed and desired.  I planned to meet again when we were both ready.  But we then went back to our regular life.  I then felt like myself again not a washed out lonely wife.  Things even improved with my marriage.  I didn’t feel resentful of my husband being gone and tired when he got home.  When he was away I would meet my lover and fulfill my other needs.  I never knew having an affair would change my life for the better.

Do Yourself a Favor

Try something different in your sex life.   Get  a fling, a lover, a little something on the side.  Get yourself off and be set free.  NO STRINGS ATTACHED, no drama, just some naughty or nice sex.  Bring back that sexual being that you once were or set free the sexual God or Goddess of dream of. Don’t let your significant other chain your sexual abilities and let it go to waste. Do yourself a favor and set your sexual being free.

Meds and you libido

This might be a no brainer and one that you might have not really wanted to address with your lover.  Medication can really put a downer in the bedroom for marriages and affairs.  Many different kinds of medications have a lot of side effects and in a lot sexual side effects run high.  No way is anyone saying don’t take your medication because it can cause a decreased sexual desire or will hinder what I feel and how I perform.  Just be aware of what those are and don’t be afraid  to talk to your physician about any problems you are experiencing. Its better to find out the main cause instead of blaming yourself.  And in some cases there are meds out there that can help increase all of the above.  So talk about your sex life with you doctor and you never know how much better it can be.

The Amazing Benefits of Water

The amazing benefits of water is simply amazing.  Bascially in so many situations  a cure all.  Since water makes up most of our body when we don’t have any enough our body doesn’t function properly.  Dehydration is a big problem for most of us and most of us don’t even realize we are dehydrated.  When dehydrated our brain and organs don’t function 100% .  This makes us moody, not feeling , tried well and definitely not interested in SEX Drinking more water not only help our body function on a better level but so does our mind.  The water we take in can not only help our bodies on the inside but on the outside as well.  Drinking water lead to clearer, brighter healthier skin, including a lot of water in your diet help maintain a healthily weight.  Thus making you feel sexier about yourself.  Water also helps to keep our body flushed of toxins , this helps us stay healthy and also helps to smell good and taste good in all areas especially between our thighs.  Drink an extra glass or two and awaken your healthy sexier you.

Don’t Get Serious


When having an don’t get serious,  it best to keep your emotional feeling at bay unless you are truly on planning on leaving your spouses. A Fling is just that a fling something fun and carefree, a sexual distraction from your every day relationship.  Once you start having those kinds of feeling its best to either end the affair or find a new lover.  You do not want your affair to turn into any but that an affair.

Lounge In Love

The master of control this lounge in love position will relax  and stimulate the senses.  Have your lover sit comfortably on the floor leaning against some pillows or the couch.  Straddle him backwards and have him enter you from behind.  Now your in control.  With you feet planed on the floor and bend your knees and grind on him.  Move your hips in a circular motion. This is a great G spot position and with you in control you can take him to new heights of pleasure.  Also this allows his hands to be free to rub other area of enjoyment.

5 Behaviors That Are Going To Get You Caught


Check out these 5 behaviors that will be a big red flag to your spouse!  It best to avoid these so you can continue your affair and your marriage safely and happily.

  1. Don’t state to them you love them but your not in love with them anymore.
  2. Don’t spend a lot of time on the computer when you are with your spouse.
  3. Don’t try to be private or say you need private time.
  4. Don’t all of the sudden start being away from home and blame it on your work schedule.
  5. Don’t take private phone calls or text while with your spouse.  This is a biggie!!

These are just a couple of NO NO’s .  Be cautious and not cocky.

Keep Your Germs To Yourself

When participating in an affair its really common courtesy to keep your germs and sicknesses to yourself.  If you are sick don’t meet with your partner.  The last thing they want is to go home with a cold or a flu bug.  Not only is it a drag for them but a drag for their whole household.  Plus being with someone who is sick is a big turn OFF!  The last thing you want to do is get physical with someone who is ill.  The Flu is abundant  this year as well as the stomach flu which is the biggest they have seen.   Its best to wait till  you both feel better and spread the love not the germs.

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